A LOVE LETTER
TO YOU
hello darling,
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i am grateful you found your way to me. i have been dreaming of you and wishing for you.
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i believe intimacy is a remembering of body, of desire, of truth. desire the forbidden was born from my devotion to you, to creating spaces where shame is not an enemy but a teacher, and where pleasure is not indulgence but medicine.
my work is not about performance or perfection. it is about coming home to yourself, unraveling the stories that told you you were too much or not enough, and stepping into the wholeness of your desire. i walk with you somatically through breath, touch, rope, ritual because the body carries the wisdom words often cannot reach.
healing is not something we do alone. it is a communal practice. i believe in the power of being witnessed, of gathering in circle, of learning and unlearning together. when we open ourselves in connection, shame loosens its grip, and we find freedom in the places we once felt bound.
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and i will not only hold you i will challenge you. i am here to activate what lies dormant, to invite you past the edges of comfort into the places where truth and liberation live. my role is not to let you stay small, but to remind you of the vastness of who you are when you choose to risk being seen.
pleasure is the compass i return to again and again. it reminds us that we are alive, that our bodies are worthy of reverence, that intimacy is both liberation and belonging. in choosing pleasure, you choose yourself, and that is the most radical act i know.
rope has been one of my greatest teachers. i began tying in 2013, nervously and tenderly courting my first femme mentor. since then, i have studied with a wide circle of presenters, from diverse traditions and lineages, including teachers from japan. rope showed me that intimacy isn’t about patterns or performance, it’s about presence, surrender, and the ways we choose to hold and be held.
along the way, i have sought out trainings and communities that deepen my ability to hold space for this work. i am certified with the American Board of Sexology as a Sexologist and Sexology Educator, and a Certified Embodiment Coach/Human Design, with additional training in intercultural development and trauma-informed practice. i hold degrees in education and nonprofit leadership, and i’ve woven these skills into communities as a teacher, facilitator, and guide.
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my journey has carried me across teaching at workshops and conferences (BED, FIRE, Desert Bound), into circles of seekers and lovers, and into leadership roles (Shibari Study, NARIX) that shaped how i teach and hold space. but beneath all the titles, what matters most is this: i am here to walk beside you, to invite you deeper into yourself, to remind you that desire is not something to fear but something to honor.
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this is my life’s work: to guide you, to challenge you, to activate you into deeper connection...with yourself, with others, with the pulse of your own aliveness.
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with care, devotion, and desire,
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Sage 💋
Thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to work with me and Karine. We’ve got that new relationship energy back and things are going so much better! Thank you!!